Terror strikes Mumbai again. Time and again, we have undergone these barbaric acts and time and again we have spoken of "Mumbai bouncing back ". Ppl who say this need to have a real check of their facts . Mumbaiites are humans , we ain't courageous ,no we ain't . Even we are scared of terror , even we need peace . But as they say - the "city never sleeps" is so true , but in the other sense . The city never "gets" to sleep;thanks to these terrorists. I don't want to raise an issue here , but where are the MNS activists who alleged that their city is getting polluted by Biharis. Why don't they do something about these terrorists as well ? They r "Pure outsiders" , ain't they?

So, who's to be blamed ? Pakis or our own Govt. ? The paki terrorists have run ruckus and have managed to receive unprecedented success by carrying out this heinous crime in India.Now few pakis (i'am sorry for using this word - Paki , but with the kind of personality those ppl have, this word too seems less deserving) reading this blog wud object on whether or not they r to be blamed . Well, Pakis, we've got the proof. Ur country's image is out in front of the entire world. Make no mistake , the whole world's watching this action that's still going on in the Hotels . The posh hotels of Mumbai had been attacked last evening (26.11.2008) by Pakistani assailants who had made a different approach this time to attack the island city . They didn't use the aerial route, they didn't use their usual RDX ..but this time, they attacked from the front (probably coz they knew that world were calling them cowards for not facing the crowd ) , but terrorists , we will still call u cowards probably becoz u have "hijacked" the hotels and firing indiscriminantly on innocents . Pakis are responsible for these attacks no doubt . They r one country who don't like to see their neighbors prospering unnaturally. They wanted to remind us the "attacks on JW Marriott , Islamabad" can be done on Indian soil as well. What can we call such a barbaric act as ? Act of cowardliness. A dastardly carried out by miscreants who allege that the muslims in in India ain't getting the proper treatment. All I can tell them is - "Get a life ! ".

I believe the Govt. has loosened out it's stand on terrorism . This present Govt. can hardly be had faith upon. The main religion of India - Hinduism is being taken for granted . I don't want to sound religious but I stand by my stance of taking stern action against Islamic outfits . I believe the Pakis are enraging the Indian muslims , and there's no reason on y we must cut bilateral ties with Pakistan. Let it remain isolated . When the Govt. of Pakistan ( well, so called govt. ! ) can't do anything about , it means that the country is "governed" by terrorists. There r 2 such countries which with the help of US and other fire powers need to be blown up - Afghanistan and Pakistan.

This has been one of the worst Terror attacks India has faced and it's been called - India's 9/11. We have had enough of blood bath this year ...oh God, please relieve us from this pain. They say that this is the "Kalyuga" (in Indian Mythology) and that the Hindu God - Lord Vishnu will take birth as "Kalki" in this period and he's the only saving grace to say the least .

The battleground - "Taj" and "Trident" ( Hotels ) in here is still on. I wonder how many more casualties will be reported in the future , but let me take this opportunity to salute the dead Policemen who laid their lives for our prospering country. Salutations to ATS (Anti Terror Squad ) Chief - Late Hemant Karkare , Encounter specialist - Late Vijay Salaskar and Mumbai ACP - Late Ashok Kamte.May their souls rest in peace. Those civilians who lost their lives in this gun battle , remember , u r in a better place now . God bless u and our country.

Jai Hind

The Gunda-Raj in Maharashtra doesn't seem to die as of now. It's just spreading like wild fire . What's the fight basically about ? Why is North India and West India (Read Maharashtra) divided all of a sudden ? Who's to be blamed ? Who's affected ? Common man like us. Will this ever end ? This blog is neither a bashing for Mr. Raj Thackeray nor is it a bashing for UP/Biharis. This is a blog from a common "Indian". An Indian,who wants to live in peace and not in haste . An Indian who loves his country more than any specific culture of India. An Indian, who neither hates Mumbai ( Maharashtra ) nor hates North Indians.

Feb 9th 2008 : MNS (Maharashtra Navnirman Sena ) , a political outfit of Maharashtra starts its violent campaign against Biharis/ UPs (North Indians ) , to protest against the lack of facilities provided to Maharashtrians in their own state, in Railways. By the term "Violent" , I quite literally mean it. Beating , Lathi-charge, Bashing up , Pelting stones over Taxis , Autos (Run by North Indians ). The same day I was traveling in an Auto,which I reckon was run by a Maharashtrian. I was unaware of the situation , neither was the Auto-Driver. I was heading to my office , and on the way , a stone hit the Auto's front portion near Santa Cruz area. The driver was obviously pissed ( He didn't know the situation ). He headed straight towards the guy who had the guts to stand infront of him despite knowing what he did. That guy was having a huge stick with him. Oblivious to the situation , the driver asked him on what on earth was he thinking while throwing that stone. The guy asked - "Are u from UP Or Bihar ?" . The driver replied back that he was from Satara ( Maharashtra ). After listening to this , the guy apologized and said that the political party would pay for the breakage charges.He informed him about the situation ahead and warned him not to go ahead. Now u guys must be wondering, y was that question of his source asked ? Read on... Despite of the warning,I insisted the driver to go ahead , as it must be some prank. The driver was skeptical , but went ahead. We were just talking about the situation..the North -West divide. He was quick to back the Political Outfit , claiming that whatever agitation they r under going, is quite justified since they (Maharashtrians ) are outnumbered by the Biharis in Railways. I asked him - " Agreed, but then , don't u ppl appear for the Railways' Exam as well ?". He replied in an affirmative tone. He went to to say - "What are we asking ? Place in our own state ? Isn't it pathetic ? ". I wanted to stay away from all this but couldn't resist.I asked him - "U want to "ask" ? What do u mean ? Whoever clears the exam, only will be getting a seat. There's no easy way out for this . U can't achieve success with the help of these hooligans". The driver was quiet ... may be he understood what I meant. He turned his head back, and asked me whether I'am from North India? I smiled and gave an answer - "I'm neither from South,nor North..neither East nor West.I'am an Indian"

Oct. 21st 2008: Same story... I was in an auto which was driven by a UP guy. The guy was obviously nervous to take me , due to the sensitive situation, but I assured him that nothing wud happen. The debate of UP,Bihar - Maharashtra divide ignited once again , with the driver asserting that they are right in what they r doing. He said that there's nothing but unemployment and poverty in his state, so they have no other option but to come down to Mumbai to earn a living. So, where else do they go ?!

Who's to be blamed now ? Going by the way the driver said, I think the State Govt. of UP and Bihar are at fault. The govt. failed to provide employment , shelter , food to their own sons. As a state, both UP and Bihar have completely failed. But what's new in this ? This city has been a city of dreams for all "outsiders". If u've noticed a common stuff about this city , we all know that this city is cosmopolitan. Infact , the city has only 40 % of the population which are maharashtrians.Rest,needless to mention, are from various parts of India. So what's wrong in it ? While I presume to be neutral in this North-West divide , all I can say is that we ain't going to achieve anything from this . Who achieves from this? Politicians . While I feel that Raj Thackeray (MNS Chief ) is 50 % true in what he claims , and 50 % insane , I also support the Biharis who are 50 % right in their own stance. But eventually the common man's suffering... Either ways, from Bihar's point of view or Maharashtra's point of view ; It's a loss only for India. A country with such contrasting colors of problems , who are fighting amongst themselves to earn a piece of bread. One on side, where we are celebrating for the success of Nuclear Power signing with US , we are also peeved by such obstacles. It's a pity that these people ( Maharashtrians ) are only being fooled by the "son of the soil", who are spreading disharmony and are proving to be a huge threat to the National Integrity. However I do agree somehow with his point , but if he gets down to goonda-ism ,it's just not going to work. Come let's stay united , Come let's make India one.

I opened the rusty doors of my MSN Spaces (aah the good 'ol name ! ) , and i found tonnes of messages, few of them my well wishers, few of them with their silly frnd requests (psst : am i popular here ? hehe ) Phew ... it's been almost a year since i blogged . Actually hard core blogging stopped ever since Sept 2006. I just happened to check out my own archieves and the comments i got for all of them ...mind boggling . I miss them all , I miss my blogs , which is y i thought, y not peep into it and just see, what's happening here ? And I must say, few things have changed, few haven't. Few bloggers have left the blog park , few are still there :) . I don't when is the next time, that I would be blogging again , no, no guarantees this time, coz I'm unsure abt my return coz I'm either held up with work or I'm bored to type :P . Till then , take care all of u ! ;-)

In the last one year,I've learnt a lot in life....I learnt how beautiful can life be when everything goes the way u want it to be.Met new ppl who were stangers until last year....lost some who were so precious to me.It's amazing to see how life can take a turn unexpectedly...life can be good to u...at the same time it can be cruel too.Ppl r right....Twenty + is the age when u learn new things which seem new to u...u may be hurt that the person who u trusted so much can cheat u miserably...new working arena ...everything seems to be new.It's just similar to how the  new born baby sees the "innocent world",only to realise twenty yrs later that life ain't a cake walk.

We learn so many things in our life...sometimes we r elated...sometimes we r disappointed. They say that disappointment is the stepping stone to happiness ...really? Well that's what we think when we go thru bitter experiences.Life is a learning experience,in which there r going to be lot of thorns on ur way.There is nothing called destination on our life....life just goes on once u achieve one destination...

Now there's happiness ...the next moment thr's sorrow.....or cud be vice versa. I wonder y r we human beings who go thru such emotional stress all through out our life...y ? Oh almighty, y is it that i see some humans basking in glory when the other is going thru stress,and feels his life's shattered ? Y such imbalance? We say it's bcoz of our previous birth's karma ...but when we ourselves go through all that, we feel ,is this theory been made just to make us smile?? Well atleast I belong to the latter ! It's just a word called "tassalli" in hindi....self satisfaction! How long can we keep understanding ourselves is upto us!

I've gone thru many phases in my life....fluctuation b/w happiness and sorrow.All I can say is, it's rather easy to advice others on what they must do...but only the victim knows it better. I'am no advisor .....i'am a victim ..victim of --fury of life.

In the end I can conclude by pointing my finger to all those advisors .... if u really wanna advise....presume urself to b in the victim's shoes and then think on how the feeling is....only then advise.Advise is essential for victims,but give an advice which has some sense into it.

In the city of B’lore there r 5 stray dogs who are absolute fun-loving and live life to their fullest as if there’s no tomorrow!

The characters  :::

1. DJ

2. Sid

3. KK

4. SJ

5. SAK

6. SU

7. Laxman

8. Maddy (Guest Appearance)

Su ,a Labrador from UK happens to visit India for making a movie on the Indian Stray dogs’ fight for Independence with Indian Humans. SAK receives Su at the International terminal for Dogs Airport! Su informs SAK about her plan.SAK is ready to help out Su,but warned her that present India is not the same as it was earlier! So,the talent hunt begins!

Su and SAK roam around the streets of Bangalore so that they can find out some talented dogs who can do justice to the role.But to their dismay they found that some are either teasing the cats/hens/crows or  busy flirting around female dogs or busy digging the dustbin to find some food. But all eyes were over Su ! It looked as if the red carpet was lied down for her, when she was walking ! Male dogs drooling over Su’s stunning look ! She afterall was a babe,to say the least ! Many male dogs tried to impress her when they were asked to perform for the roles they were supposed to do. But none of them could fit into the role.Su was fully frustrated.SAK asked Su to chill down and introduced Su to her friends. KK was busy coloring the dustbin with – “KK was here” . Over there Sid was oblivious to the world as he was mating another female dog! DJ and SJ were in a stiff competition where in they were asked to howl as loud as possible creating a menace for the residents ! But things changed in a blink of an eye when the gang saw Su ! DJ, the biggest flirt in the gang tried some of his stunts to impress Su by shooing the cats loitering near their territory. Su was amused ! Laxman, in the rival party,who’s pretty neat compared to the DJ gang was furious over the mess created by DJ and co. There was a brawl b/w Laxman and DJ (yeah,those usual dog fights u know !!)

SAK informed DJ about the movie that Su was planning to make ,to which DJ was stunned !He reluctantly accepted the offer and tried to give his best. All the dogs were given their respective roles,where they had to show the pre-independence struggle. The movie was completed admist much drama.

     Maddy, SAK’s  BF, joins the post-movie party! Maddy is a public servant who was a bomb sniffer. Meanwhile, Maddy proposes SAK for wedding. SAK is on cloud n.o. 9 and accepts the proposal. DJ and co already start preparing for the Grand-Wedding! The list of guests (Majority Females) goes on and on!!! But Maddy is asked by it’s owner  for an urgent task as there was a bomb threat in the city.

Few days later, as these fun-loving dogs are having a ball of their time harassing the cats and birds near by , Maddy’s death was being telecast(ed?) in the TV. SAK was in utter shock and was in a mood of vengeance. She obviously was crest fallen. SAK and Maddy’s mother join a mass rally which was a peaceful one to protest against the death of Maddy- which according to SAK was not natural. The death was caused due to inhalation of toxic substances in the Bomb. But the govt., was not ready to accept this fact and instead launched a massive attack on all the stray dogs. The dog-catchers ( MOST INHUMAN ASS***** on EARTH) started attacking the innocent dogs who’s only fault was to protest against the killing of Maddy. The truth was bitter. Su was terrified with the present status in India. She was wondering – These were the faithful dogs who once upon a time had  helped the Indian humans’ freedom struggle against the British govt. All the dogs in the rally were put inside cages (THAT’S NOT THE TRUTH…SOMETHING ELSE HAPPENS INSIDE,WHICH ISN’T SHOWN TO THE PUBLIC). Su hints DJ to teach the BMC (Bangalore Municipal Corp. ) a lesson which they would remember all through out their life. DJ thought that the best way out ,is to follow the steps followed in the movie they had done recently.

DJ and Sid decided to “Bite” the Commissioner of BMC in the morning when he goes out for a walk . They had also planned to surrender themselves after the “crime” (IN HUMAN WORDS),for which KK and SJ had evacuated a Radio station! The mission was completed and the Commissioner was bit! DJ and Sid then make their way to the Radio station where KK and SJ are waiting. The time finally comes when they confess that they had committed the crime. India was visibly shaken. Hearing the confession, the govt. ordered the Police to raid the Radio Station. Little did DJ and co know that the worst is near. The Police with Dog catchers raided the Radio Station and open fired without any prior intimation. I don’t have to mention what happened next, but the whole country was furious over the govt for killing innocent dogs.Agreed that some of the dogs are abnormal,but then are only dogs abnormal ? Ain’t Humans abnormal too for killing innocent dogs which do no harm to us ?? Why do we think that Dogs (or for that matter any animal) are a non-living creature ?? Y do we treat them this way ?

This blog surely resembles  Rang De Basanti ,but to be practical this isn’t possible. Innocent creatures are being killed in the state of Karnataka.Why ? Because 2 kids were killed by a grp of dogs. Bah! When humans kill each other, the accused is taken to court,with hell lot of dates/cases being adjourned…then y this indiscrimination when it comes to animals ? What r humans trying to do ? Trying to show their power over those innocent and faithful aninals ? Join the drive to protest against the recent killings of stray (JUST BECOZ THEY ARE STRAY,IT DOESN’T MEAN THAT THEY CAN BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED).

IF U REALLY WANT TO SUPPORT THIS NOBLE CAUSE, PLEASE DON'T STEP BACK FROM SIGNING THIS PETITION AGAINST THE RECENT KILLINGS OF INNOCENT STRAY DOGS IN KARNATAKA,INDIA. MY BLOG READERS (BE IT FROM UK,US OR BELGIUM!),PLEASE DO SIGN THIS PETITION.

http://www.petitiononline.com/8Mar07/petition-sign.html?

Thanks,

Animal Lover, PRITHVI.

Love is blind.

Rape them,kill them,dump them...sounds hysterical,but it isn't for all those maniacs who indulge themselves in such henious acts.What do they get from this?Happiness??Aah,u must be kidding!They remove their frustration...but for what?!Why is the world so cruel?I'am pointing the Noida killings which has shook the entire nation.

Moninder and Surendra,the accused who have committed the most brutal crime one can ask for are behind bars no doubt,but they are still under-trial u c..Indian judiciary,my goodness,often goofs up.Kanoon andha hain- it seriously is! Law is blind in India.Y the hell shud such insane thugs given a chance to plead guilty?One can blame the Police here too,yes they being the main culprit of all that has happened. For all those who r clueless on what am i talking about,here's a quick recap-

It had begun long back,arnd 3 yrs.Kids ranging from 3-15 had been kidnapped on a regular basis.Some were found ,some were missing.But the police who loves lethargy were in their own world day dreaming.They were reckless enough to even bother to lodge the complaint.The parent's of the missing did the rounds of the police chowky....well what else could those "Poor" villagers do?I have written that in quotes becoz it means a lot.Yes,bribe's what police want.Show me the money,we'll try finding it out.Well,all in all it looks like "Partners in crime " more than lapse in co-ordination or concentration of the Police.This man,the mastermind- Moninder Singh seemed to have been in the colloboration with the police!Well,when the villagers point the same accused for kidnapping,and the Police still don't bother to put him behind bars,one can predict what the story is.The writing's on the board- To protect ourself,we MUST NOT look forward to Police's help.It further complicates things.Politicians,another kabbab main haddi who just love intervening.When more and more skeletons were found (Mind u,read it time and again,it's skeletons,not just dead bodies!That shows for how long these bodies have been left for decomposition), the Police cut a sorrow face.Aah,here comes a politician to add salt...guess what does he say --" These :SMALL: things keep happening in these villages,we have ordered a probe.U don't have to make a huge deal out of this." I guess it's one of the most insensitive quotes by any human in this century.No wonder if a citizen hears the word-Politician,all u can hear him/her saying is- aah,politicians are corrupt.

Kids ranging from 2-15 were allegedly raped,then killed...and DUMPED in a gutter.Horrendous if u ask me....i guess words are few to describe these acts.Well,there's even more drama coming!When the accused was asked for the reason of him killing them,he promptly said - "I had gone to a tantrik baba,since i've no kids.The baba said,that if I've sex with those kids i'll have a baby soon,so i simply followed his steps"....I was aghast listening to all this,I'am sure u too will be.The Police's just been watching ,what I call as a mere spectator when all this has been going on for the past 3 years.So,how did the police find it out now that there r skeletons in his backyard (Accused's house)??Naaa...wrong claims!,The Police NEVER found out those bodies.It's those ordinary villagers who found it.

Probe,probe,and bloody probe...what else can the Govt. do? Can they return the lives of those innocent children who were so brutally murdered?It's a pity that such foolish and insensitive ppl live in this planet.We call that our country is progressing...which way?!!! We have no scope of improvement with such maniacs living in our soil.Something's severly wrong with the Indian Judiciary.Why do u want to give such animals a fair trial?!I guess with the media coming in the middle,we can expect justice.Media has done a lot for the common citizen.One example's the very hyped- Jessica Lal case.All we can hope that may justice prevail,and the guilty be atleast sentenced life if not Hanged.

An innocent guy in a cruel world.A chap whom his parents taught to respect a woman come what may.But this respect transformed into shyness for this chap. He was more than shy to talk to girls.As if they were some aliens to men,he used to tell me that he spoke to girl A for 10 mins.He spoke to Girl B for 30 mins.The highest being 30 mins!Plz don’t giggle while reading this,because there are many more comical acts done by this guy when u read further below.This guy’s one of my friend called Avinash (name changed!) who dreamt of his dream girl to be like an Indian Actress called, Gayatri Joshi.He wanted a girl,with pure heart…in short a typical middle class Indian girl.But I often used to ask him,whether he would actually get a girl with such qualities,and most importantly talk to her with an eye-to-eye contact? He rubbished my question that he’s not all that orthodox,but expected some good qualities,which will prompt him to talk more with her.Will he ever get such a girl?

1 fine day Avinash had gone for an Interview where he met a girl in which he saw his idol-Gayatri!He was allured,and the talking begun.Little did he know that the love story had actually begun!Her name was Shikha.He was even scared to ask her mobile n.o, but somehow managed to get it!The same day he called me up and narrated the incident.I was skeptical that it would'nt work out,coz looking upon his attitude towards girls,I felt it’s next to impossible!Especially a city-girl matching his thoughts is difficult.The other day he wanted to call her up,but was a bit scared.He collected some guts and called her up.Hmm,something ridiculous which he does, is to make a schedule of the talking.He estimated that the convo would last for 10 mins.He prepared an algorithm-

2 mins—Hi,this is Avinash from Vashi.Hope u remember me.We met in the GE campus interview.

5 mins – Talk about the result of the interview(VERY FORMALLY)

2 mins--Ask her about her future plans

1 min --- Try to prolong the convo by talking about himself

CALL TERMINATED/ENDS IF SHE ISN’T INTERESTED. HOWEVER IF SHE IS,PROCEED…

5 mins—Talk about my family

3 mins--Know more about her

IF SHE ISN’T INTERESTED IN TALKING MORE,DISCONNECT,ELSE PROCEED..

Well,what can I say,he went to the extent of writing the points down,on the way he’s gonna talk to Shikha.

The next he called up and said that she reciprocated well,and most importantly the converstation lasted for 50 mins!

A few days later I said Avinash that I had to leave for Pune ,for some work and would be back in a few months.After a few days,Avinash had given a surprise call.It really was a surprise.

”Shikha’s my Girl.I learnt so many things from her…I came to know what’s CCD (Café Coffee Day).I saw so many movies which I’ve never seen in my life.Wow,what a life man!!!I’am loving it!I’ve been to so many places which I’ve never been in my entire life!”,he said.For a minute,world seemed to be topsy-turvy for me.I congratulated him…now that he had a girl friend,he spoke less to me.

Months went by,and I had come back to Mumbai.I called him and the tone wasn’t the same.It was different…”I want to meet u” he said. ”Sure,y not”I affirmed.

We met and he cut a sorry face.I realized that all’s not well with Avinash.He narrated his story,the story which was unsaid for 10 months…all those things that happened between him and Shikha….

He began his story…

“She has had 2 relationships prior to this.It was physical.But I didn’t know that it was to such an extent.She did it all on the bed with them….”. I was listening in disbelief. He continued,”…..like the way we did.” I interrupted…”what..what??wait a minute…did u say,like u and her????”. His heads down,he nodded. I was dumbstruck.Avinash,this guy who’s orthodox thinking was of higher priority than anything else-had a physical relationship with her?Before I could think more, he continued, “ It was love.I loved her.My feelings were pure.But one day she told that she can’t continue with the relationsip because her parent’s were looking out for a guy.I was disappointed and said that I really love her,but it all seemed to be falling into deaf years.” Tears rolled down his eyes…with those tears,he asked…”How could she actually forget all those things we did together?,all those promises?because when I asked her about this,she said that it’s all history and both of us must look ahead.When I asked her whether she would actually reveal all these to her future hubby,she gave me a stare and said-Are u crazy?I wanna marry alrite,y shud I kick my own legs?......” he went on.

I once again interrupted, “ Listen Avi, marriage’s just not about lust.It’s responsibility and security of the wife.But hey,I guess she has lost it…she really has lost a gem.With who else will she be so secured than U? Just forget it…”But before I could say anything more he asked, “ Is this the result of respecting a girl?I respected her,but at times she used to mock me by saying that I’am an innocent kid in a cruel city.All this makes me think,whether I should really respect a girl….”I had no answer…I want an answer from u all.Is it right on his part to say that last sentence,or is it just that there r a handful of girls in this world who r like Shikha?

The arguement continues.It's elders V Youngsters.The battle's endless,ego clashes continue from one generation to another.How often do have u seen that we disagree with the thoughts of elders?Y is it that when we grow old,we ourself start recommending/advising our juniors!Ahh,this advise's lovable,I mean ppl just love to advise,some ppl do it for good,some do it coz they wanna pass this game on!Yeah,often this advise thing,becomes a game where it's "passed" from one generation to another!

If I'am asked,I would say,YES!,I love advising!!!Afterall,everyone does!My dad keeps advising me,but this advise often ends up in deaf ears!But I often landup "using" those advises later,when I come to know that I wasn't successful in what I wanted to do,without listening to his advise!I used to have a phobia->he advises->I dont listen>I end up losing!Well to be frank that's a sort of superstition,but then it isn't true.It's all about experience.I basically advise my younger brother,so that he doesn't face all those difficulties which I had,earlier.But then this saga continues.Only when u fall into the trench,u tend to learn.That's not just with me or my bro,it's with every1.All in all I would say,if u really wanna recommend or advise,do give it,but plz see to it that u don't end up losing ur energy by wasting it on useless ppl who think they r the king of themselves!(LIKE ME!)

Whom do we listen to?Mother?Wife?Mother is someone with whom we have been from the time we were born.They understand us better than we do.Mother...a lovable word,word that spreads love all over the world.A caring woman who loves u unduly,who taught u to live.A father may be oblivious,but a mother's always there to support u.She can be ur best friend.Mom,mummy,mommy,mum,amma....various names of mother...but does the child realise the importance of her?It doesn't take a minute to stare at a girl...then love her,and land up in the bed!Well sometimes u r decieved by this word "Love".Sometimes its just lust.It's ur fate,if u love that girl and that gal ditches u.What if u get a gal,u go arnd with her,and r totally oblivious in that love affair,that u forget the 1st woman in ur life-mother?That woman,who has played with u,cried with u,laughed with u.Ppl say 1st love's true love.It may be true,but not always.U may love gals/boys umpteen n.o. of times,have countless Boyfriends/Girlfriends,but true love happes just once.When?,no body knows,but it does.

Many-a-times,even if u marry a girl of ur parent's choice,there tends to be a hostility b/w the mother and the wife.Ego clashes,fights..however it doesn't happen in all the families.A mother may not always be right,but no body can guarentee that wife can be either!It's upto the husband/son to judge on who's correct in which situation.Situation changes time to time.Sometimes the wife may be right,sometimes the mother may be....and sometimes the arguement's pointless!(happens Often!).

If he's a nerd,he'll always support his latest addition to his life- wife!

If he's a moron,he'll always support his 1st addition to his life - mother!

Hey hey,I've seen to it that both the woman are given "equal status".I mean no partialities here!Just notice,in the end it's the guy who's the scapegoat.A nerd or a moron!It's he who falls into the trench,and is helpless!After marriage,if u follow whatever ur mom says,u'll be devoid of  wife's love,and viz.,u follow whatever the wife says,the mother's love will be at stake!

There's no foolproof solution to the guy's plight.It's all upto the guy,on how well can he judge a person,and most importantly gotta be impartial.Neither should he be stumped by mother's love (incase mom's wrong),nor should he be bowled over by wife's love(if wife's wrong)!.For bachelors,well,just be single...u've some life ahead of u guys,enjoy it,u've to go through all that misery anyway,so y fall into the trench so soon?Roam around,party,jhumo gaao.This life's short...enjoy it until it treats u properly.As for the married guys...well,the ball's in ur court...it's upto u on how to keep both the woman happy!

The show must go on,the show will go on...Patience is what is needed.I'll be back soon next month,till then,good bye...

      The long wait! Pardon me for not blogging as frequently as I used to earlier. Days have been assiduous so far, and let me warn u all that, blogs would be coming at a lesser frequency from now on.

       Now then, let me shed some light on the topic that has been doing the rounds these days…Terrorism. Bomb threats, scares, blow-ups, blasts, the world seems to be entangled in these things. Right from the west to the east, terror threats seem to have formed a mist, which has obscured our vision. What’s more hysterical is that, its not that, we the natives of earth are scared of aliens or something! We are afraid of ourselves! No one is above-board. People are becoming disingenuous day by day. The world is not bland anymore. Corruption, politics, Rape, violence have been enriched.

       I sometimes wondered how voracious we have all been to each other. The more we are, more is the animosity; which leads to chaos, which is terrorism. Some people hate the world, they are known as terrorists. They however begin the journey, by claiming that they want to protest against the atrocities, but when terrorism is made as their profession, who can blame them? Who are the terrorists? They too are humans. Some say they are humans without heart, some say they are ruffians and jungles. It’s easy to become bad, but equally tough to be gentle and caress. It’s a known fact that, the pit of badness is rather deep. If u think that , I would just go down 2 feet below,  out of an ‘infinity’ feet pit, u are mistaken! A pit is a pit, having no stairs or support so that u can control yourselves from falling deeper.

       Take the fact of what happens in our own country, India ….the Government coolly blames its neighbors, that it has terrorist camps in its country. But, let it plz check the facts, our neighbor is so witty that, though it’s a terrorist country, it has repudiated from that fact now. Lets admit it, terror camps exist in our very own country. The north state of  UP has Pak-trained camps, so that when need arises they can attack the capital.

         What’s more?..... Ordinary people like us go through tough procedures while preparing a passport, but terrorists get it quite easily. The amount of time we take to get a passport, these ruffians take even half the time! 2 months of wait for us is 2 days for them! “show me the money”, suits perfectly on these officials, who prepare the passport.

          What’s the point in frisking a gentleman, when there is a huge hole in the wall of an airport, which is surrounded by shanties? I personally feel, that before we blame anyone, we should be strong enough, so that the arbitrator doesn’t find loopholes, in our own defence! Stop those extra-formalities, which is prominent only in the Indian-legislature, be swift in reacting – is what our action should be. We have been unfair by blaming the Indian-Muslims for all terror attacks. Ok, for a while, lets accept that and go, ….. then next? Why do we call ourselves secular? Do we understand the meaning of it? Or is it just because, Hindus and Muslims have been living together in one country for the past 50 years? I cannot end this particular blog, as long as the story of the earth continues………….