In the last one year,I've learnt a lot in life....I learnt how beautiful can life be when everything goes the way u want it to be.Met new ppl who were stangers until last year....lost some who were so precious to me.It's amazing to see how life can take a turn unexpectedly...life can be good to u...at the same time it can be cruel too.Ppl r right....Twenty + is the age when u learn new things which seem new to u...u may be hurt that the person who u trusted so much can cheat u miserably...new working arena ...everything seems to be new.It's just similar to how the  new born baby sees the "innocent world",only to realise twenty yrs later that life ain't a cake walk.

We learn so many things in our life...sometimes we r elated...sometimes we r disappointed. They say that disappointment is the stepping stone to happiness ...really? Well that's what we think when we go thru bitter experiences.Life is a learning experience,in which there r going to be lot of thorns on ur way.There is nothing called destination on our life....life just goes on once u achieve one destination...

Now there's happiness ...the next moment thr's sorrow.....or cud be vice versa. I wonder y r we human beings who go thru such emotional stress all through out our life...y ? Oh almighty, y is it that i see some humans basking in glory when the other is going thru stress,and feels his life's shattered ? Y such imbalance? We say it's bcoz of our previous birth's karma ...but when we ourselves go through all that, we feel ,is this theory been made just to make us smile?? Well atleast I belong to the latter ! It's just a word called "tassalli" in hindi....self satisfaction! How long can we keep understanding ourselves is upto us!

I've gone thru many phases in my life....fluctuation b/w happiness and sorrow.All I can say is, it's rather easy to advice others on what they must do...but only the victim knows it better. I'am no advisor .....i'am a victim ..victim of --fury of life.

In the end I can conclude by pointing my finger to all those advisors .... if u really wanna advise....presume urself to b in the victim's shoes and then think on how the feeling is....only then advise.Advise is essential for victims,but give an advice which has some sense into it.